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Dear Reader,
As many of my family and close friends know, I have joined the ranks of the caring men and women who have military pen pals currently serving tours in Iraq. Through Twitter, I learned of Email Our Military (@MailOurMilitary), a volunteer service that grew out of a nati ... Continue reading »
As many of my family and close friends know, I have joined the ranks of the caring men and women who have military pen pals currently serving tours in Iraq. Through Twitter, I learned of Email Our Military (@MailOurMilitary), a volunteer service that grew out of a nati ... Continue reading »
1 year ago
it really is that simple.
1 year ago
1 year ago
I'd like to give twitter users a little more credit than that. In fact, twitter users were our #1 supporters during the 2007 holiday season. They made sure that our service men and women had plenty of holiday correspondence and care packages.
It's also important to note that eMail Our Military has a code of ethics in place and we take the time to explain what is and isn't appropriate to discuss. Something that Noah would have known if he had taken the time to do his homework before launching into an attack.
Service members don't consider email, cards, letters and care packages a burden. In fact, they welcome them. They boost morale. But don't take my word for it, take a look at the testimonials on our site or read the letters of thanks we get on a daily basis.
It's also important to mention that we never send unsolicited mail, all of the service members supported through eMail Our Military have sought us out and registered for our support and our volunteers are more than happy to send it!
1 year ago
--Michelle
1 year ago
I am planning to sign up for eMOM. I'm with you about what I plan to write. I have emailed one person I knew personally who was serving in Iraq. When he got home, he told me how much it meant to him. Every single holiday (Christmas, Fourth of July, etc.), I would send him a quick note just to let him know our family was thinking of him and his family that holiday. Other than the holidays, the other emails were mundane but I know they were also appreciated.
I have not been following the conversation with Noah and think it is probably best to steer clear of it.
Finally, I found it humorous that you said you are a bleeding heart liberal who among other things breast fed and carried your children in a sling. I am a staunch conservative and also breast fed and my husband and I carried our twins slings. One of the best things about America is that we can have the freedom to express our opinions. We can disagree politically. We also have the freedom to set our differences aside and look for common ground.
1 year ago
Sure, there's always the slim chance someone might say the wrong thing but over all it will be a wonderful service and memorable experience for all involved!
I support what eMom is doing fully. I think 99% of people do.
Pai
1 year ago
1 year ago
Here's what he actually said and it is all available for viewing in his archives:
@treo700 it works don't it? they promise virgins. people are willing to die for it. about 2 hours ago from web in reply to treo700
retweet @eMom You're confusing eMom (me) with eMoMs (eMail our Military). Two totally separate ideas/organizations. about 2 hours ago from web
@eMom oh sorry about that. about 2 hours ago from web in reply to eMom
@treo700 were you married when you were in Afghan? keep in mind I generally agree with you and don't want to fight. about 2 hours ago from web in reply to treo700
@blueteddy I don't think the soldiers want my ass. about 2 hours ago from web in reply to BlueTeddy
retweet: @BlueTeddy @noahdavidsimon, you're right. fly your ass over there to get the boys laid. don't forget the vasoline about 2 hours ago from web
@treo700 why do you think the Muslims offer all those virgins in heaven? hmmm? we could learn a little about motivation from these people! about 2 hours ago from web in reply to treo700
@treo700 whatever you say. I know that when I am surviving... the thing that gets my morale up is not a letter. about 2 hours ago from web in reply to treo700
@HotFish oy... your one person. come on people! you know that I should not be writing the military about 2 hours ago from web in reply to HotFish
@Ninety7 I am against art schools. so are most artists about 2 hours ago from web in reply to Ninety7
@treo700 I'm sure there is a lot of good hearted agendas here. but this just sounds like a real bad idea. sorry I spoke out. about 2 hours ago from web in reply to treo700
@treo700 I have sympathy for them. I want them to be happy. I could imagine what is going on in they're minds. about 2 hours ago from web in reply to treo700
@Ninety7 a lot of these boys are not even married yet. get em laid about 2 hours ago from web in reply to Ninety7
@HotFish I think U all know N Ur heart that if U cared about a kid that might not see manana they should get laid not cookies and milk about 2 hours ago from web in reply to HotFish
@Tiggr care enough about the soldiers 2leave them alone. listen 2 these vanity shattered twitter moms. ich! leave em alone girls about 2 hours ago from web in reply to Tiggr
@Tiggr soldiers want to deal with me. I would not be an asset in a war. twitter idiots and they're paradox arguments will drive u insane about 2 hours ago from web in reply to Tiggr
@treo700 if I were in Iraq and I didn't know if I was coming back or not. I would want some of the good old pootang,not twitteratti letters about 2 hours ago from web in reply to treo700
@SCMProfessor send money if you want to support the troops. they need better combat tools. but don't ask me that. ask
@treo700 about 2 hours ago from web in reply to SCMProfessor
@SCMProfessor send money if you want to support the troops. they need better combat tools. but don't ask me that. ask @treo700 about 2 hours ago from web in reply to SCMProfessor
@treo700 some of the twitter people like @emom and @MailOurMilitary think it is a good idea to let the people here talk to the boys about 2 hours ago from web in reply to treo700
@BlueTeddy now your saying I was sexually abused? about 2 hours ago from web in reply to BlueTeddy
@treo700 you know what the people around here are like. do you want them sending anti war shit to the troops? about 2 hours ago from web in reply to treo700
@MikeChapman please write 2 Al Queda instead of the troops.Enemy needs 2B driven insane. send n email 2me and I will translate it 2 Arabic about 2 hours ago from web in reply to MikeChapman
@MikeChapman for once Ur right. I am perpetuating a meme. that is a bad. hmmm about 2 hours ago from web in reply to MikeChapman
@MailOurMilitary just leave kids alone.If U don't understand how important getting laid s2n 18 year old then U shouldn't be writing about 2 hours ago from web in reply to MailOurMilitary
@sorenj I'm saying let the boys do they're job. send money. not cookies and milk about 3 hours ago from web in reply to sorenj
@BlueTeddy go breast feed Hamas about 3 hours ago from web in reply to BlueTeddy
@MikeChapman hey do me a favor. write to Al Queda and drive them nuts about 3 hours ago from web in reply to MikeChapman
@BlueTeddy my mom knows when not to leave me the fuck alone. and she did breast feed me about 3 hours ago from web in reply to BlueTeddy
just the hostility of replies tells me that I am right. People who think Jimmy Carter should be talking 2Hamas shouldn't b writing troops about 3 hours ago from web
worst! the worst. pathetic... moronic... destructive. and arrogant! about 3 hours ago from web
@MikeChapman yeah... bitch at me! that's right! that way you don't do it to the troops about 3 hours ago from web in reply to MikeChapman
yeah... bitch at me! that's right! that way you don't do it to the troops about 3 hours ago from web
listen to you. I can't believe you think your opinions going to the troops are going to save they're lives. you people are a bunch of fools about 3 hours ago from web
@Dayngr your so witty. do you do that to people that have the stress of war on they're back too? about 3 hours ago from web in reply to Dayngr
@MailOurMilitary your killing me. and you expect some kid in Iraq to deal with these jerks. this is the worst idea EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! about 3 hours ago from web in reply to MailOurMilitary
@Dayngr what kind of people do U fools think Ur going 2meet on TWITTER and get2write a letter.U want to kill these soldiers? your doing it about 3 hours ago from web in reply to Dayngr
@MailOurMilitary sending playboy bunnies is one thing. but you dumb idiot just wanna harass a man with a gun. about 3 hours ago from web in reply to MailOurMilitary
@MailOurMilitary the military **IS** partison FOOL! They have a war to fight! they don't need your head trip! about 3 hours ago from web in reply to MailOurMilitary
@MailOurMilitary @SCMProfessor @Ninety7 @Dayngr realize vast majority of people here do not support the troops they don't need Ur head trip! about 3 hours ago from web in reply to MailOurMilitary
I've been on twitter long enough to realize that a vast majority of the people here do not support the troops they don't need your head trip about 3 hours ago from web
@Dayngr saying fight media war here by voting against Democrats, but let troops do they're jobs. fighters don't need ladies harassing them about 3 hours ago from web in reply to Dayngr
@Ninety7 we need 2support the troops.this is not how you do it. support the troops by supporting they're funding.don't harass em with email about 3 hours ago from web in reply to Ninety7
@MailOurMilitary last thing I would want is some YENTA that is going to vote for OBAMA talking to me right now about 3 hours ago from web in reply to MailOurMilitary
@MailOurMilitary SAVE THE TROOPS! fight against MOMMY harrasment about 3 hours ago from web in reply to MailOurMilitary
@MailOurMilitary supporting is one thing. bothering is another. show your support by letting them do they're job n stop shit talking them about 3 hours ago from web in reply to MailOurMilitary
@emom is an idiot about 3 hours ago from web in reply to eMom
@BlueTeddy fight against email our troops. I'm starting a new group. It's called GET OUR BOYZ LAID and no Cookies and Milk about 3 hours ago from web in reply to BlueTeddy
@BlueTeddy those boys need 2B left alone by self righteous betty. Ur going 2give them a little leg. that's 1 thing. this isn't mommy time about 3 hours ago from web in reply to BlueTeddy
fight the power of the twitter yentas. email our troops is an outrageous idea from people that don't support the troops.this is a nightmare. about 3 hours ago from web
protest against @emom and tell her that we don't trust the people on twitter to deal with the boys in combat about 3 hours ago from web
as if our boys don't have the moral problem as is. Now we got YENTAS sending emails with BLUE STATE persuasions. THIS IS A FRONT about 3 hours ago from web
@Dayngr a little worried about having these TWITTER people writing the troops. from talking around here I don't think the troops need this about 3 hours ago from web in reply to Dayngr
1 year ago
In the future, maybe we can remember to not tweet off the tips of our fingers but with the souls of our palms. I'm guilty of spewing sometimes myself, but this whole thing is a good reminder to always be genuine.
Again, we are all agreed that this culture's servicemen who want communication from strangers back home should get it. It's a standard institution in our country's cultural fabric, and at least a 3,000 year old practice.
1 year ago
If he knew anything about eMail Our Military he'd know that the people who register to support the troops through them understand that regardless of their personal views on politics the goal is to support the troops. That's built into their Code of Ethics and folks who don't follow the rules will no longer be part of the program.
Pretty much everyone involved in support the military through eMoM are really proud to stand behind our service members and thank them for everything the do on a daily basis.
Great post!
PS. I breastfed my babies and carried them in slings too and at times have been called many names including a bleeding heart liberal. I guess all of that is subjective.
1 year ago
Noah, don't belittle what eMOM is doing in order to make a difference in the lives of people who ask for that help, for that connection. They've taken the responsibility to ensure that members of eMOM understand what is acceptable and what isn't.
This program has been in place for years and troops are still writing in to request a civilian pen pal. That is what's important.
That when a solider reaches out, there is someone there to take their hand, pat their back, or give them a smile.
1 year ago
I know from experience and stories that letters/e-mail from home make a huge difference for our Military men and women. Deployments are deployments and they suck all around. People don't just miss their loved ones but the normal every day things like conversation that isn't an order or a salute. They miss home.
My husband in many of his e-mails asked me to make sure this person, that person, family, friends had his e-mail address. He wanted the communcation. He didn't care what you wrote about, he just wanted the connection. Hell, I talked about cleaning the bathroom in one of my e-mails. He loved.
My friends who have been to Iraq, are in Iraq, and have been there have all told me the same thing. The e-mails, letters, and packages get them through the deployments.
War is hard mentality to keep up. It can destroy your spirit. Letters from home remind them that the situation there in is not normal and normal will come again.
Sure, some of them don't want letters. Those people don't sign up for penpals! DUH! So don't go bashing some one, a company, or a movement who is trying to support those who do want a connection from home. THAT IS BELITTLING THE SOLDIER THAT DID SIGN UP AND NO SOLDIER NEEDS THAT IN A TIME OF WAR!
1 year ago
My husband over the years has had things thrown at him and been called names just as he was leaving the ship in his uniform. His morale was in the toilet. It hurts them that they put their life on the line just to be called names!
My husband spent a year away from the family doing his job. He came home this time with a better attitude. Why? Because he heard from people that appreciate him and what he does. I know a number of guys that are deployed without a close family and very little support. The support that they get makes a very difficult situation a little easier.
I have been a part of eMOM since it was just a small group back over 5 years ago. I support the hard work that they do and the smiles that they bring to those who want the support. It is not a huge thing but it makes a world of difference. Maybe because I am a Navy Wife I see things differently. My father retired from the Army and maybe I was just raised with a different mind set. I truly appreciate what the men and women in uniform are out there doing on the front lines do for us, just by doing their jobs. They are underpaid and under appreciated for what they have the guts to do.
The next time you see a sailor/soldier/marine or airman in uniform stop and say thanks. It will make their day and maybe lift one from the depths of dispair. They may never show it other than the smile that they will wear. But people need to stop being so selfish. Our military wear the uniform so your do not have to. If you sleep well each night....Thank a member of the military. If it were not for the military of this country then people would not have the freedom of speech to spew the crap that comes from their mouths. The military are the ones protecting the freedoms that people are taking for granted. Think about it!
1 year ago
People on the front line don't. If you are arguing with me here. then don't write letters.
They don't need your sissy snide uptight queeny attitude. You say you have a code? I'm not so sure people will follow it. That's like Rodney King saying people, "Let's All Get Along" A lot of you seem more interested in protecting your precious twitter community then saving the lives of people defending your country. you should be ashamed.
You want to write letters... to the military... your right they have done it before. My grandfather a World War II Vet used to tell jokes about the stupid letters he would get.
Just don't invite the idiots above to write.
These kids deserve better then your harassment.
1 year ago
1 year ago
1 year ago
Noah, are YOU in the military? Have YOU been in the military? Are YOU married or in a serious relationship with some one in the military? Are YOU a vet? Have YOU been to Iraq???
How do you know people on the front line don't want letters? How do you personally know?
1 year ago
How do you know people in this war don't want letters?
1 year ago
I'm dealing with you. That takes a talent. Respect what I offer in the same way that your should be respecting the troops. Brown shirts like you think the war is only dudes holding a gun. I live right near West Point and I know plenty of people fighting, but it doesn't take geography or an occupation to put two and two together and realize that the community of twitter is very against the war and is not mature in it's ideas related to it. I hear the personal stories on the train going up the Hudson. I hear about missiles coming out of Iran and kids not being able to write about what they saw with they're very own eyes because our country doesn't want to admit we are already at war with Iran. You are attacking me on a personal level because you know I am hitting a relevant point and it hurts the vanity of you and your friends. SHAME ON YOU FOR BEING SO SELFISH! You are trying to reflect by pointing out that I am not a soldier? Do you honestly believe the opinions of someone dodging bullets are going to be able to argue with you? Ah.. but I guess you do... that is why you are writing them isn't it? If there is one thing we should of learned from Vietnam... it isn't "diplomacy" that wins the fight, but rather the public relations and mind set of the people. Once the mind of the people is determined, then we can take part in diplomacy. But with the TWITTER society manipulating public opinion like it does, negotiations are going to look like Jimmy Carter's shit smile with Hamas. I am in communications and I am trying to protect the dudes that do not have the extensive background I have. I honor them and respect them, but I am not the one holding a gun. Only tyrannical idiots with an agenda think the way you do "Military Mama". In the same respect. I do not think I would be best at holding a gun, I also believe that dealing with hard nose jerks like you takes a specialist. I respect the soldiers too much to go out there with them. I would gladly give my life, but if a person with my background disagreed with a higher up... that would be a very bad thing. America doesn't need a person like me second guessing the troops, but you guys need to get your shit straight if you are so arrogant to go and start communicating with soldiers without a second opinion on what would be prudent in filtering out bad twitter apples. The fact that you are attacking me with the venom that you are just proves your ill will. You act like this with a soldier and he's liable to have a problem. You are not interested in helping the troops "Military Mama". You are interested in you're own vanity. What I bring to this is valid criticism of a program that could hurt our country.
1 year ago
eMOM has a code of ethics. We members have our own personal ethics and we are not out to jeopardize our country or the safety of our service members. As a Navy brat I was taught "loose lips sink ships" and eMOM holds to that standard. As an Army wife and an FRG Lead Volunteer I have received my share of OpSec briefings. We are not randomly contacting service members, they have asked for our support.
Many of us have spent 100's of hours writing letters and emails and showing up at airport homecomings and standing roadsides as funeral processions go by... we don't do this for vanity or recognition as I'm the first one to say, I've been to events where there is not a soul in the crowd who knows me....we do this because we're patriots who love our country and those who serve it.
PROUD eMail our Military member!
1 year ago
Noah said ...TWITTER society manipulating public opinion like it does, negotiations are going to look like Jimmy Carter’s shit smile with Hamas.
Noah, maybe that's your twitter stream but that certainly isn't mine. Nonetheless, it's not about whether people are for or against the war. It's about supporting our troops through correspondence.
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PROUD eMail our Military member!
1 year ago
1 year ago
I know it seems silly because it's just two bucks and a stamp, but for some people even that is a hardship.
1 year ago
Only in America can we reveal our passions, our disagreements, our political opinions in an open forum. Regardless of your views, we should be glad that our freedoms to speak our mind are being protected by those who, I consider, much more brave, more heroic, and more of a patriot than I. I love my country. I would gladly die to protect your freedoms and beliefs even if they are not the same ones I share. Why? Because we are Americans first and foremost.
I understand both points of view and while I tend to lean more towards eMOM, I fully respect Noah's view. Because he is an American. Because he CAN state his opinion. Because he has the freedom to do so.
Likewise, I feel the need to defend the community of Twitter. I have found an amazing set of new friends on Twitter. I have seen the GOOD that comes from Twitter. I have had differences of opinions with people on Twitter from a political perspective but what I found is that, in the end, we still respect one another. We acknowledge our differences and move on.
I ask everyone involved in this thread: you may disagree with one another, but no matter what, please respect the differences of opinions and be glad that you are in a place where we can engage each other in a forum like this.
Finally, we are Americans. Let us show the world that no matter how we may feel about the war, we respect and admire our soldiers who are fighting. I think in the end, that is what matters. That we defend other Americans regardless of our views. Thank you.
1 year ago
1 year ago
For anyone to group the users of Twitter into an exclusive group of anything other than technology users is simply absurd. Users of Twitter come from all over the world, in fact, I would guess that those of us here in the US are a minority in the Twitterverse as a whole.
For any American to say that we, as a country, are against the TROOPS, cannot be an American. For YEARS I have spread across the internet that we are not in the 1970s and that this is not Vietnam. I am so far against this war that it isn't even funny. I despise the current president of the United States and blame him and his staff for the alleged WMDs that sent us into Iraq. There is not one single soldier I do not support. I support and love the soldiers from each and every war this country has ever been in.
Those accused and convicted of crimes RE Abu Graib (I know I spelled that wrong), love 'em and support 'em. The president that will not reject the use of waterboarding? Despise him.
Some of the soldiers, including one I am related to, feel that the war is good and justified. They say that the people in Iraq are genuinely happy that we are there. Some of the soldiers, such as those I see on the news and other places, feel that being in Iraq is wrong, just as I do. Regardless of the position of these men and women, fighting the war is their job, just like my job is supporting an office to ensure it runs smoothly. We don't always like our jobs, but we do them. People do not hate us because we do our jobs - Let me rephrase that - people worth listening to do not hate us because of our jobs.
Americans support their soldiers, because without them there would be no America. Many of us who are so involved in the technology world and active on Twitter were too young to be involved with Vietnam. We heard the stories of how American soldiers were spit upon and degraded horribly. We are not the generations responsible for such actions.
As I sit here and wonder if there is anything further I should say on this subject, I come to realize that it is not just Generation X and Generation Y that are unconditionally supporting our troops and have ignored the craziness of what was the Vietnam war.... Gee, don't we have a Vietnam Vet running for President?
Since the late 1980s, I have not met one person in this country who did not support our troops. I was also greatly against Desert Storm, for reasons that are not important here, but I always, ALWAYS supported our troops.
1 year ago
While I disagree with some of what you say, I respect your views. I do agree with it not being a GenX or GenY stance. However, I believe that these Generations are more active and responsive than previous generations if not only due to the technology available to us versus in the past.
Thank you for sharing your views. Have a great day!
1 year ago
That being said, though, despite the fact that I can't name a single person I personally know who supports the idea of our nation at war, I also don't know a single person who has anything but gratitude and compassion for the people who are over there fighting it. I mean that sincerely.
Also, after reading this story, I went hunting for other sites that connect civilians and soldiers via email, and HOLY COW, they are all so shady. Most of them have websites the 1980s would kill for, require money to join or seem to have an agenda that's far beyond cheering up someone far from home and making their days better, which is really all any of these groups should be doing, along with anyone writing through them. Anyone doing this job well deserves applause, because it would seem that most people are not.
1 year ago
PATHETIC!
you shouldn't harass the soldiers. you shouldn't harass me and it would seem you spend more time twitter bitching then actually insuring the soldiers don't get flamed like I am getting. you are proving exactly what I am saying.
Yes this is America... feel free to continue being an idiot on this thread.
LEAVE THE SOLDIERS OUT OF THIS!
1 year ago
I would say that if you're writing to a servicemember, keep it cheery and supportive. And if you send them something in the summer, make sure it's not meltable because it's hot over there!
1 year ago
please look at the illustration work of Jason Brooks and give him a little credit for his design style. Few realize that he invented this digital illustration style stolen by so many girly ventures. The integrity of your site is so lacking in so many ways other then moral issues. The design of this thing is pathetic.
1 year ago
please give credit to artists.
soldiers are important, but the integrity of the design and your references to it's history are important too
http://www.jason-brooks.com/portfolio/
this guy is actually an interior decorator, but every one in advertising lifted this poor guys style... including Mail our Military
1 year ago
Let me start by saying I am a 23 year old combat medic, in iraq. I have requested to get emails from emom and as have others over here with me. The simple thing is that mail electronic or not is a great damn morale booster. I miss home and have been stuck in this shit hole for the past 6 months and i have about 9 left to go. we get mail all the time from random people accross the U.S. and it makes us happy to see that we are appreciated and not forgotten. trust me its easy to think that you are forgotten. i am not going to say if i believe in the war or not or what side of the politcal fence i stand in. i will say this, TROOPS LOVE MAIL! i am a line medic. i am right there on the front lines kicking in doors and my guys all call me doc. i have seen the worst that humanity has to offer but i offer the best humanity has to give. its a hard job and i deal with more human suffering than i care to think about, and nothing shines through the thick, darkness like a simple letter or email. i dont care what its about. i could use the break in the monotiny of this hell hole. but once again it is america and what i fight for to keep free so enjoy your opinions. god bless, and sorry for the gramatically incorrect rant.
1 year ago
1 year ago
Be safe bro! Thank YOU and all the rest of the troops for doing what you do. I am damn proud of all you guys!
Again, stay safe and get home soon!